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Caregivers, You Just Never Know…

Caregivers, You Just Never Know…

You just never know I was on a lunch break from a class. I had a few minutes and ran...
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Self Sufficiency Can Be Connection Blocker

Self Sufficiency Can Be Connection Blocker

I heard this idea on the We Can Do Hard Things podcast the other day. Oftentimes caregivers (and others) are...
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What Do You See In This Photo?

What Do You See In This Photo?

This is not a test - there is no right answer. First, I saw a face - two eyes and...
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When COVID Changes the Plans

When COVID Changes the Plans

My sister and I had a trip to the beach planned for six months. The night before we were leaving...
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When To Seek A Second Opinion

When To Seek A Second Opinion

Sometimes we do not agree with a medical professional's advice or diagnosis.  Sometimes we just want confirmation of what could...
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Part 2: How to Advocate for Yourself/Loved One at Medical Appointments

Part 2: How to Advocate for Yourself/Loved One at Medical Appointments

As promised, I am following up on last week’s blog about preparing for medical appointments.  Many of us have waited...
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Tips for Preparing for Your Medical Appointment

Tips for Preparing for Your Medical Appointment

Many people wait weeks or months to get a medical appointment and yet walk in to the doctor’s office unprepared. ...
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Tips for Transitioning to long term facilities

Tips for Transitioning to long term facilities

Over one million Americans live in nursing homes.  Many families have to make the hard choice to place a loved...
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Gaslighting at the doctor’s office

Gaslighting at the doctor’s office

Let's start with the definition. What is gaslighting? It is a term tossed around frequently these days, usually in the...
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Legacy of Caregiving

Legacy of Caregiving

Say what? I don’t want a legacy of caregiving. I hear you, you did not sign up for this.  Most...
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Statistics report: 1 in 3…

Statistics report: 1 in 3…

Perhaps you have heard 1 in 3 of us have or will have cancer in our lifetime. Given that, it...
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A funny story about pacemakers and church name tags

A funny story about pacemakers and church name tags

A funny story about pacemakers and church name tags My client’s husband just turned 90. He has Alzheimers. After a...
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Start Hard Conversations Early

Start Hard Conversations Early

If you know caregiving is coming in your family, likely for a parent, it may be best to gather interested...
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Start hard conversations early

Start hard conversations early

If you know caregiving is coming in your family, likely for a parent, it may be best to gather interested...
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Guess who got to practice patience for 12 hours?

Guess who got to practice patience for 12 hours?

That would be me.  Guess who is not so good at patience? Last week I talked about remaining calm in...
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I was in a three-vehicle  accident on the highway today and it will be all okay 

I was in a three-vehicle  accident on the highway today and it will be all okay 

I was driving to my son’s baseball game  on 1-70, going 70 mph.  There was a very long semi, two...
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Where is the safety net?

Where is the safety net?

One giant misnomer in aging is that the government will protect us, that there is a safety net.  I hate...
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If you are actively caregiving – take advantage of support and resources available

If you are actively caregiving – take advantage of support and resources available

If you are actively caregiving - take advantage of support and resources available Many millions of people woke up this...
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In honor of Pride Month – Did you know…. –

In honor of Pride Month – Did you know…. –

The number of self-identified LBGTQ seniors (which does not count those closeted) is expected to double by 2030, from 1.5...
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What exactly is  FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and who qualifies?

What exactly is  FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and who qualifies?

There are a lot of misnomers about this federal program. I want to share some facts about it for my...
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