Below is a list of things you will likely encounter. It may be helpful to think about them now.
You may find yourself…
*Needing to adjust to a new life expectancy and/or explaining what that means to you and others
*Dealing with how a “terminal illness” impacts the patient (and yourself) on an emotional level
*Processing a change in activity level, home environment, driving, communication, moods, managing medications and appointments, etc
*Finishing the relationship before it is too late
*Supporting decisions that are realistic for your loved one
*Giving the patient some control and decision making while maintaining their safety
*Making arrangements for the future
*Coping financially
*Giving permission to let go
*Saying goodbye
*Managing what comes next
I’m working with several clients now who are getting ready to lose their spouses and are dealing with all of these things. Reach out for a free consult if you would like some coaching and support in these or any other areas.